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 kamalnazmi
 
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							| hi dear, I �ve got a question.. 
When I want to use " wish " as a verb , I say:     I wish you were with me. ( I �m making a wish here)   I wish you to be   okay   .  (  to express a desire  I can use wish + to infinitive)   but my question is  when I want to ask about someone( his state) now, in the present time, shall I say : I wish you were okay.     or is it fine to say: I wish you are okay     .       (     since    I �m asking      here      about his  pesent state) |  23 Nov 2009      
					
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 anne.candan
 
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							| Sorry - you can �t say I wish you to be OK, nether can you say I wish you are OK.   When you use wish we are talknig about hypothetical situations. Even if we are talking about the present you have to say I wish you were OK.   However in this situation the person is NOT OK.   If you don �t know if the other person is OK or not, then you don �t use wish - you �d say I hope you are OK.   Anne |  23 Nov 2009     
					
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 jessica farias
 
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							| You can use the verb "Wish" to express something you would like to change or be different about a situation.  If you refer about something in the present your wish must be in the past; if the fact is about the past the wish should be in the past perfect tense (you go a tense back) 
 I wish I were taller (I am short)
 I wish I had gone to university. ( I didn �t go to university)
 
 Hope it helps.
 
 Jessica
 
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 kamalnazmi
 
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							| So it �s better in this case for a person to say: I hope you are OK. In fact this is exactly what I �m looking for , because I �m quite sure about the use of past tenses when using the verb " wish" . But I wanted to make sure that in such a case when we don �t know whether the second person is OK now or not, we can use another verb like " hope" but wish is certainly unaccepted. ,, You did me a big favour guys .I �m really thankful.  |  24 Nov 2009     
					
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