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 tommy1996
 
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							| relative clause 
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							| Plz tell me what relative pronoun is right?
I hate formal occasions like wedding where/when i have to wear a suit.
Thanks. |  6 Mar 2016      
					
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 yanogator
 
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							| Generally, "when" is for time, so using "occasions" leads to "where". Also, it should be "weddings".   Bruce  |  6 Mar 2016     
					
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 cunliffe
 
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							| I agree with Bruce. However, in this case and in my neck of the woods, the natural utterance would be  �when � |  6 Mar 2016     
					
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 marzouga
 
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							| for peace of mind i think we can use "in which" of course if we don �t have limited choice . otherwise, i would say when as it implies the day of the wedding . |  6 Mar 2016     
					
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 alien boy
 
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							|  I �m with Lynne. A wedding is a specific event, so we commonly use  �when � in Australia, too, rather than  �where �.  �Where � is more commonly used for locations rather than for scheduled events, so Marzouga has it right.   Cheers, AB  |  7 Mar 2016     
					
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 poroxod
 
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    DEFINITE ANSWER    I was not satisfied with the answers of native speakers. There was no common reply to this question. Answers expressed by members don �t enable to make a final conclusion, because one definite answer is not agreed. Amaxingly, no one refers to grammatical resources to clarify the answer. It is a pity which shows lack of proficiency in grammar. We turn to native speakers to obtain the definite answer.   THE DEFINITE ANSWER IS WHERE.     I hate ties and collared shirts in general. Any wedding or other formal event where
I have to wear a suit, I �m constantly tugging at my neck and ripping
off my tie within 5 seconds of getting back in my car to drive home after the
event.    |  8 Mar 2016     
					
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 alien boy
 
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							| From an Australian perspective not all formal occasions require formal dress. A lot is dependent upon one �s role at the event and the information provided with the invitation, hence the common usage of  �when � rather than  �where �. 
It may well be more of an issue of descriptive grammar as distinct from prescriptive grammar for many native speakers. |  8 Mar 2016     
					
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