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							 Dear colleagues,   I need your help:     when you want to refuse an invitation can you say      "I �d like to, but I can �t"   instead of the more common sentence  "I �d love to, but I can �t" ?    Thanks!   | 
						 
					 
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							 I �ve thought about this for a while, and I think "I �d love to" is very common in accepting an invitation, but "I �d like to, but I can �t" is not only correct, but possibly more common in declining.   Bruce   | 
						 
					 
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					Jayho 
					 
					
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 From a female perspective, I�d love to but I can �t is different to I�d like to but I can�t, and the appropriate form is chosen depending on the context.   I use the former mainly with my mum and close female friends and for events that I am really, really keen to go to but can�t, such as concerts. I �d love to go and see Bruce Springsteen with you, but I can�t         
        
        
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